Single mother needs guidance?

[Michelle]

Im a 24 yr old single mother of 2 great kids. My life has crumbled around me over the past few years and i dont know what im supposed to do from here! I met my sons father when i was 14, got pregnant at 17, had my son, got married and graduated highschool at 18. Divorced at 19. He is a great father, but thats it. We loved each other but werent in love. We have a great relationship now for our sons sake, might as well say were friends! Joined the Army at 19, met my daughters father around the same time, got pregnant at 20, had my daughter at 21, her dad came back from Afghanistan and left me high and dry! I had to start all over with my kids. My service was up this year and i wasnt ready to get out of the military, but i was about to be homeless, car is acting up, so many things. My parents are divorced and neither one of them will let me live with them. They have almost pushed me out of their lives because theyre focused on theirs! Im sorry but id never push my kids away! I dont care what age! I was a good kid and im a great mom and a very loving and caring person. My parents were going to let me go to a homeless shelter when they have plenty of room at their houses. who does that to their child? My kids are what keeps me going! If it wasnt for them, i have NO idea where iw ould be. Im in debt, back at square one and my parents could careless. They arent bad people, but when it comes down to it, i was almost in a shelter! My kids could stay with them if i had to find a shelter for myself. but thank God that didnt happen. I have no guidance and no sense of direction from here. Im a strong willed woman but i am completely lost. I need a life coach or something? Any advice, words of encouragement, resources would be great. Thank you Y.A.!!