While I agree with all of what you said, but this. I am a happy person, I come on this site to bitch. I do dress well and I have st8 teeth, perfect hair, clear skin, nails all that other stuff.
People often (men and women) tell me "oh you look good" what I fear they are leaving out is "You look good for an OVERWEIGHT PERSON"
I go out, I don't think it is a coincedence that guys ALWAYS approach my friend and not me. I am the one with the degree and the more talk-a-tive one. But when they flirt with me, they do it to ask me more about my friend.
It is a pattern I have seen happen so many times that I have nothing left to conclude other than my weight being the issue.
