Ughhh it drives me nuts when people don't follow thru with their commitments. A guy friend of mine is always asking to hang out, we plan a day and then I never hear from him when the day comes. so then I am always the one taking initiative. I text/call him and he tells me that he cant hang out. fkn annoying. same with my other friend, we were supposed to chill this friday but now she says she can't because of a hair appointment. a hair appt takes what? at most 2 hours. She has the rest of the day free.. she was the one who suggested to hang that day so I know she does want to hang out.
Should I just stop taking initiative? If people really want to see me, then they should be the one making an effort too.
Should I just stop taking initiative? If people really want to see me, then they should be the one making an effort too.