im debating whether to just wait and have sex with a guy i feel right with and love or just wait till after im married. bad experiences? good experiences?
You should wait until you're ready and find someone you truly love. Personally I think it doesn't matter either way as long as you love each other and use proper protection.
Marriage is slowly going out of style all together. Do you know what the divorce rate is in this country? Thats because people were brainwashed at a young age to wait until they were married to try making love to one another - before realizing they don't like having sex with there partner.