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no.1mommy
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My mother in law is a horrible woman. She has tried to destroy my family for years. She tried to have my son taken away for totally false claims. The charges were of course dropped. My husband vowed never to see or speak to her again after that. I was not unhappy about his decision. We moved out of state mostly to get away from her beacuse she would just harass us constintly. She would call our phones 40 times an hour. We changed our number and she would bang on the door for hours. We have made several police reports but the cops never want to get involved. The brush it off as a family affair. She has threatend to cause me and my son harm. My question is for the last couple of months she has been writing my husband and pretty much begs for forgivness. She has done this many times in the past and once we forgive she goes off the deep end within a couple of months. She is bi-polar and refuses to take her medication because of the possible side affects. I know that i can never trust her. She has threatend to kidnap my kids and I wouldn't put it past her. But as a mother she is tugging on my heart strings. My husband seems not to care. His mother was horrible to him his whole life and he says he just wants that chapter cosed. He has no father and without her no family at all. I truely hate the woman who continues to abuse the man I love. But I'm still left feeling guilty. I never hide my feelings for his mother from him. I truely hate the woman and always will. She wants to see my husband and the kids whom she has not seen in 2 1/2 years and has never met my youngest. Should I try to encourage this reunion of shorts or leave things just as they are?