Should the act of sex be over once the man climaxes?

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Elephant Droppings

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More often than not, when couples have sex,it's over once the man is climaxed and is finished- even if the other person has not yet orgasmed.


In the case of a married couple,would it be selfish of the wife to want the husband to continue sex,even though he was finished?
 
I don't think it should be over once a man climaxes. It's not selfish to want to orgasm when you have sex, though some men can't continue intercourse after they orgasm.

The man I'm seeing now is much more interested in making sure I climax than the other way around. Often times, if he gets off before me, he'll use a vibrator on me until I finish. Or he'll encourage me to pleasure myself in front of him.

It sounds like your husband is selfish if he's not concerned with you achieving orgasm at all - though, as another poster said, a lot of times I'm content enough after sex to not even need to climax.
 
It would not be selfish at all to want the husband to continue...

Although I do think that once a man climaxes, it may be uncomfortable for him to continue with penal/vagina intercourse. In that case there are other things he can do to get his wife to orgasm. However sometimes a woman is satisfied even if she hasn't orgasmed! Overall, open ness and honesty is key :-)
 
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