Should I use a condom for first time sex?

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sarita

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I am a 32 year old lady. I am still a virgin....becoz I wanted to save it for my husband. I live in the US and I am of Indian origin. I waited long enough for marriage which is not happening. I want to lose my virginity and start having sex now. I go out a lot and meet many guys....I just have to get closer to one of them....I dont know who it will be but I want to have sex. I cant wait any more. It is frustrating and depressing. It is unfair for the whole world to be having sex while I have to wait till my mid 30s to experience sex!!!...So, I am going to go ahead and lose my virginity now. I just want to know if I should use a condom on my first time or not. Obviously I will not sleep with any random person...I will meet the guy, get to know him first and if things get closer I will give up my virginity. I know the medical reasons for using a condom....i.e. protection from pregnancy and STDs.....But I have also heard that condoms decrease the sexual pleasure and enjoyment. I want my first time to be really enjoyable. So should I ask my guy to use a Condom or not for the first time?? Any other advice that you have is also appreciated. Thank You!
 
1. dont be ashamed of your desicion to stay a virgin until marriage
2. use a condom for every time you have sex unless you are on a contraceptive and are sure the guy has no stds.
3. be sure this is what you want, and dont regret anything that happens, and be careful
 
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