One of my best friends is pregnant, and I offered to throw her a baby shower. Our other friend is offering to help me. However. The pregnant friend I'd be throwing a shower for is extremely flaky. She cancels almost everything last minute. Any plans she makes with people, me and everyone else included she'll bail on, even if she makes the plans. She always has a million excuses for every time she bails.
So I doubt she wouldn't show to her baby shower. She would go, but the problem is I'm trying to get info for the baby shower, like names and addresses for people she wants to invite. She hasn't gotten me any information. I don't know when her schedule is available. And I don't want to put in a bunch of money and effort if she doesn't care and isn't going to appreciate anything. I doubt she'll even take the time to register herself. She does have 2 other kids, but they're older and no longer has any baby stuff as this baby was a surprise.
What would you do? I already said I would throw one, but she's kind of pissing me off with this flakiness. I doubt she'd throw a shower for me or anyone. OR if she would she wouldn't put forth any effort. She's a really cool person, but she's just flaky and unappreciative and wouldn't do the same for someone else. If that makes sense? Any suggestions would be great!
So I doubt she wouldn't show to her baby shower. She would go, but the problem is I'm trying to get info for the baby shower, like names and addresses for people she wants to invite. She hasn't gotten me any information. I don't know when her schedule is available. And I don't want to put in a bunch of money and effort if she doesn't care and isn't going to appreciate anything. I doubt she'll even take the time to register herself. She does have 2 other kids, but they're older and no longer has any baby stuff as this baby was a surprise.
What would you do? I already said I would throw one, but she's kind of pissing me off with this flakiness. I doubt she'd throw a shower for me or anyone. OR if she would she wouldn't put forth any effort. She's a really cool person, but she's just flaky and unappreciative and wouldn't do the same for someone else. If that makes sense? Any suggestions would be great!