Should I tell wife my sex history?

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We dated for 2 years and we now have been married for 1 year. I had numerous sex partners before her, not girlfriends, just sex partners because a 5 years ago I was in a couple of porn movies. I don't think she will ever find out about the movies because they were low budget films. But does she have a right to know? Also do you think she will leave me?
 
You have to be honest. I'm surprised this topic hasn't already come up - or did it and you lied the first time? And now it's been a year of marriage and you haven't told her yet? The longer you wait to be honest, the worse it will be.
 
Yes she has a right to know. And NO she won't leave you if she really loves you. Do you really want to take the chance that she won't find out? If she does and you have not been honest with her you are in for a world of hurt. Telling her may be hard but not tellling her may destroy your marriage.
 
Don't tell her....What she doesn't know will keep her happy. it's too late to come clean now...you should've told her a loooooong time ago...Forget it even happened.
 
you should have told her everything before the marriage i'm a newlywed myself and that is one of the first thing our pastor told us to do everything so that someone else won't try to expose you because they will come and expose you and if you think she won't find out about the porn films because they are low budget guess again. those movies may be on the internet. sit down and tell her everything i don't care how painful it can be and if she really loves you she will not be tool upset but respect the fact that you told her. and STAY FAITHFUL TO HER AND LEAVE THE PAST IN THE PAST. tell her evey single detail i don't care if you had sex with another man tell everything so NOBODY CAN NEVER USE YOUR PAST TO BLACKMALE OR EMBARRASS YOU IN FRONT OF YOUR WIFE because there are people who don't like the fact you are married and you marriage will grow stronger.
 
I do not think it is necessary to tell your wife about your past.It will only confuse her. As long as you intend to be faithful her. Let sleeping dogs lie.
 
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