Should I tell my date that I do martial arts?

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Anni

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I have started dating a guy, but he doesn’t know I practice martial arts. Should I tell him right away or should I wait until he gets to know me well first? I have noticed that some guys seem to get insecure when they know I could kick their butt. But just because I can, doesn’t mean I will. I’m not violent or aggressive at all.
 
I practice MA also, but I actually find it a turn on to know a female does that. Like you said, most guys find it intimidating, so I would save it for a later date. Maybe invite him over to watch a tournament? lol Do let him know they are long and drawn out. You wouldn't want him turned off to the idea of ever supporting you from the side lines...lol Good luck.

Oh yeah, just bring it up in a casual conversation like when you're watching a movie and there's a female martial artist. Ask him what are his thoughts about women martial artist and if he would ever date one. There's your answer for you.
 
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