Should i talk to my mom?

[Amanda]

So, my parent's are getting in a divorce. My dad lives here in vegas where i live and my mom lives in minnesota with my two little brothers. My brothers call me all the time telling me all these things about how my mom is stealing money from them. And then having some other man basically living in the house with them. While my brothers don't like him. But my mom tells them to listen to him even though he has only been in the picture for a couple months. My mom puts this guy first before my brothers all the time. My dad on the other hand has been trying to get my brothers to fly out here so he can see them, but my mom keeps preventing that from happening. Making my brothers more angry with my mom since they want to see my dad too. Every time i talk to my mom she always talks crap about my dad and how a horrible person he is and stuff when he really isn't. My parent's were just falling apart as a couple (they were together for 17 years). Since i don't believe my dad is a horrible person my mom had her best friend bitch at me over facebook and tell me how worthless i am and told me that she would beat me to death if she was in vegas. And my mom just acted like it was nothing. She is also trying to get the courts to make my dad give my mom all of my dads retirement and annuities and stuff. And i feel like that is a bitchy mood since my dad has worked his butt off his whole life for all of that while my mom sat on her ass.. My dad sent her to college like 3 times and she dropped out all 3 times because she said she didn't like it. My dad treated her like a queen and now all of a sudden he's the bad person and i should hate him just because my mom hates him now. Every time i talk to my mom i get in a horrible mood and my day just goes downhill. I feel like i just shouldn't talk to her.