ifyoueverlookbehind
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I had this best friend/roommate who caused me untold amounts of heartache. (We are both girls in our very early twenties). For two years, she mostly used me and emotionally abused me (or so it seemed). I know this sounds kind of weird, but that's how it happened. I finally stopped talking to her and moved out, six months ago.
I kind of miss her now, although I shouldn't. She was mean to me, and I was always miserable. I guess I miss the times when I felt needed, the times when she came to me for a hug because she was upset about something, the times when she told me things she didn't tell anyone else.
I don't know. I can't decide if I should contact her or not. She sent me one little message over the summer, before I deleted her from facebook, and she texted me "happy birthday" a couple of months ago, but she has never, not even once, attempted to ask me what happened or tried to get me to talk to her. That makes it seem like she really doesn't care that I cut her off.
I don't know if it's a good idea to talk to her again. Should I? I kind of want to make peace. I guess it's always possible that I was taking things the wrong way; I am pretty sensitive. But then again, other people besides me think she's not a good person.
I kind of miss her now, although I shouldn't. She was mean to me, and I was always miserable. I guess I miss the times when I felt needed, the times when she came to me for a hug because she was upset about something, the times when she told me things she didn't tell anyone else.
I don't know. I can't decide if I should contact her or not. She sent me one little message over the summer, before I deleted her from facebook, and she texted me "happy birthday" a couple of months ago, but she has never, not even once, attempted to ask me what happened or tried to get me to talk to her. That makes it seem like she really doesn't care that I cut her off.
I don't know if it's a good idea to talk to her again. Should I? I kind of want to make peace. I guess it's always possible that I was taking things the wrong way; I am pretty sensitive. But then again, other people besides me think she's not a good person.