Butch Derfson
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So last night, the girl I like actually was able to come out and hang w/ us. She knows I've liked her for over 3 months, she told me she liked me too before (no idea if she still does lol), but her dad doesnt let her date n she cant hang out w/ guys alone, etc etc. blah blah.
Point is, I'm always insanely happy when I get to see her, and I love being around her, because I NEVER get to see her, we only text. When we left, we hugged. I loved it - I got butterflies lol. But when I got home at night, I regretted not being bolder. Like paying more attention to her, talking to her more, sitting right beside her, touching her(not inappropriately lol) maybe like playing w/ her hair or putting my arm around her, idk lol things like that.
But idk if I were to do things like that she'd get uncomfortable - because she's non flirty, shes also never had a bf or been in a situation I've put her in. And afterall we're not together and we might not be for a while, or ever at all. We're simply just friends, we don't treat or act eachother as anything more than just friends. But I know I do like her and I'd like to show it. Would it be appropriate to do things like that or is there a line I'd be crossing?
Point is, I'm always insanely happy when I get to see her, and I love being around her, because I NEVER get to see her, we only text. When we left, we hugged. I loved it - I got butterflies lol. But when I got home at night, I regretted not being bolder. Like paying more attention to her, talking to her more, sitting right beside her, touching her(not inappropriately lol) maybe like playing w/ her hair or putting my arm around her, idk lol things like that.
But idk if I were to do things like that she'd get uncomfortable - because she's non flirty, shes also never had a bf or been in a situation I've put her in. And afterall we're not together and we might not be for a while, or ever at all. We're simply just friends, we don't treat or act eachother as anything more than just friends. But I know I do like her and I'd like to show it. Would it be appropriate to do things like that or is there a line I'd be crossing?