My friend and his girlfriend are in a long-distance relationship because he's gone away to college. Me and his girlfriend hung out for a while and did some friendly flirting. Eventually about a week ago she asked me to hang out with her, ended up coming onto me, and we had sex. Part of me feels attached, probably because I just lost my virginity and I've also been friends with her for a while (she was an old high school crush). Another part of me knows that I probably will never actually date her because she's cheated on just about every boyfriend she's ever had. I feel a huge mix of emotions from desire, to feeling used, to also feeling guilty for betraying my friend. Should I tell my friend I completely stabbed him in the back or should I keep it a secret to not hurt him?
I guess the majority of you are right, I do owe him the truth and a huge apology, even if he beats the crap out of me and doesn't want to be my friend anymore. I really need to get this off my chest.
I guess the majority of you are right, I do owe him the truth and a huge apology, even if he beats the crap out of me and doesn't want to be my friend anymore. I really need to get this off my chest.