SO. . . me and my "best friend" were talking about me and my boyfriend. And she started saying a lot of really offensive things to me. At first she did so jokingly... but then it eventually got worse. She sent me this text that was 11 pages long, no joke. She told me that my boyfriend was only using me and that I was a whore and was going to get STDs and get pregnant. She said that a lottt of people don't like me anyway and that if me and my boyfriend "do anything" that it will get out and that will make it even worse. Then she started comparing me to all these other girls (slutss). So I was obviously really upset by this. 1st of all I never said we were gonna do anything. 2nd im NOT a whore. 3rd shes supposed to be my bestfriend? And shes saying all this to me and calling me a whore? Plus theres no way in hell my boyfriends using me. And she tells me all the time that we'll never last. So after that I got mad and told her to leave me alone and that she was being really mean and I dont need her if thats really what she thinks of me. So the next day she sent me like a million texts saying sorry and i never replied i just told her to leave me alone. So finally she was like ok you know what? i dont even care. were not friends anymore. and she said that i need to grow up and realize a few things. then she even told me that i should be scared.. ? because she "knows a lot about me and can ruin my life" and she said she would do so if i told anyone the secrets she'd told me before... What do i do? I thought about apologizing but then i think about what she said and i cant.. I feel like she should apologize as well. I know she may have been trying to help but she was being very very rude....
Should I REALLY be the one to apologize?! (friend drama)?
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