This guy has been an absolute douchebag for the past month. He's brought 2 friends of mine to tears (one of which is his kind-of-ex-gf, who have some relationship I don't fully understand). He took potshots at the 1 girl who was already upset that her crush, whom she'd been dating and given her virginity to broke up with her and started dating someone else. Then 2 weeks later, after his 'girlfriend' refused to walk an hour out of her way to come and walk him to a party that he knew how to get to, he blew up at her, screaming at her for not caring and being a bitch, etc, etc. After that she had started crying, but stayed for a while and drank a lot... and then he came down again, they fought, and she left crying and drunk at 3 am, lost in a sketchy area of the city. I had to hunt her down and walked her back home because she had no idea where she was.
Oh, and he has a history for slapping a mutual girl friend of ours. This girl slaps him back with rings on, but these are not 'joking' slaps at all, and if the girl getting hit hadn't stopped me I would have hit him then and there.
I know it's none of my business, but this guy has put himself over the line here in my mind. I sent a facebook message to his ex-gf 2 days later basically saying if he's still harassing her that she could tell me and I would get him to stop, but won't butt in if she doesn't want me to. She thanked me for helping her out that night and offering but insisted she can handle it. I replied back that I understood and know she can, but I just wanted to let her know that a lot of people are unhappy with how he's been acting, to which she said 'No it's fine, it's nice you're so concerned. I try to keep my issues to myself but then I drink and he drinks and things happen and then I'm crying outside on the steps. Which is really cool. But things are fine really. It'll work out'.
I want to help, I really do. But it doesn't seem like she wants me to get involved at all, even though this guy has pissed me off beyond measure. He deserves a solid whooping, I know I can deliver it on his sorry behind, but all the same... should I?
Oh, and he has a history for slapping a mutual girl friend of ours. This girl slaps him back with rings on, but these are not 'joking' slaps at all, and if the girl getting hit hadn't stopped me I would have hit him then and there.
I know it's none of my business, but this guy has put himself over the line here in my mind. I sent a facebook message to his ex-gf 2 days later basically saying if he's still harassing her that she could tell me and I would get him to stop, but won't butt in if she doesn't want me to. She thanked me for helping her out that night and offering but insisted she can handle it. I replied back that I understood and know she can, but I just wanted to let her know that a lot of people are unhappy with how he's been acting, to which she said 'No it's fine, it's nice you're so concerned. I try to keep my issues to myself but then I drink and he drinks and things happen and then I'm crying outside on the steps. Which is really cool. But things are fine really. It'll work out'.
I want to help, I really do. But it doesn't seem like she wants me to get involved at all, even though this guy has pissed me off beyond measure. He deserves a solid whooping, I know I can deliver it on his sorry behind, but all the same... should I?