30years ago i married aged 18. my husband was unfaithful not lonf after we married. his cousin, who was also my best friend comforted me at the time. nothing sexual but we did kiss. he was single then but i gave my husband a second chance. we then moved and i lost contact for a while with his cousin who in the mean time had also married. My husband and i went through several rough patches and it took me forever to trust him. he has had one night stands on occasions but so have i. two years ago we split but only for 6 months. i went back because my children rejected me even though there was no one else. i have just met up with cousin again who is getting divorced. we declared the fact that we had been in love at the time of that kiss 30 yrs ago. We just talked. Now i'm home again and can't stop thinking about him. i have a few days off and wonder whether i should go see him? please help.
should i meet up with secret crush?
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