I love my boyfriend so much, and we have a great relationship. But he's in the army and is an active soldier. He's away at basic right now, and it's only been about a month and I can't stand it. I would love to marry him, but he's in the infantry and his chances of getting deployed are very high. What should I do? I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to spend my whole life just waiting for him to come home so we can start a life together.