should I just let things run as they are or get bolder?

fungirl228

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have the HUGEST schoolgirl crush on my daughters' gymnastics coach (I am divorced w/3 girls and yes they are all ok w/me possibly dating their coach..they love him)

for the past few weeks, he's been acting like he likes me but not all the time (sometimes he would only say hi to me and that was it) so it was hard for me to read him!! he's been doing things like

-watching me constantly (but looking away really fast when I catch him)
-was overly concerned about me when I got into my car accident 3 weeks ago (he stopped his class when we arrived late b/c of the wreck..he came over and asked me three times if I was ok). then after that practice he walked over,stood really close and said in a sweet voice "I'm really glad you are ok." it was so cute!! I wanted to hug him but his boss was there :)

-he's asked me personal questions and is always telling me about his life
-he teases my daughters' more than his other students (playful, fun teasing-they just love it)
-he hugged me hello at the gym's big meet a few weekends ago (he never hugs any of the other moms!!)

tonite I think I pretty much got solid confirmation that he does like me!! He didn't pay too much attention to me while class was going on (only looked my direction like twice) but after class he did..

-I sent my girls out to the car to start it and wait for me. He walked alongside me though the gym and we started talking about music and he began asking me what kind of music I liked (found out we have similar taste)..I then found out that his dad is a DJ for my favorite radio station and i've been listening to him since high school!! he does the morning show and I've met his dad several times since I was a teen-we were both shocked and happy to learn this.

-we talked for about 10 mins and as we were talking, I noticed one of the female coaches walk over to another girl coach and knudge her arm and said something to her. A few seconds later, they both looked over at us and smiled at me.

-as I was leaving I smiled at him and said "have a good night..I'll see you on Monday. Hope you have a great weekend." He then touched my arm (and didn't pull away for several seconds) and said "you too, It was good to see you tonight" and I smiled and said "It was good to see you too, Goodnight"

I felt like a giddy little girl!! I wanted to squeal and jump up and down...

I will probably see him again on Sat b/c he is helping with a birthday party at the gym and my girls' have class w/another coach.

should I just let things progress on their own? they've been going sooo smooth :)
 
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