Should i just give in & have sex?

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I'm 15 years old,and everyone i know is having sex.Most teenagers are,or at least the ones in my hs are.I'm like the only virgin,and they all talk about their sex lives and i have nothing to say.I was planning on waiting for marriage,but,most people i know think it's dumb,or at least the people from my generation do.And i know guys don't want to marry a virgin,so i guess it's pointless to wait.I don't want to be the outcast or the one no guy will date or marry cause i'm a virgin,so should i?I mean i know you're only a virgin once,but i guess it's no big deal to lose it nowadays,and i don't wanna be single forever.
WHy would i care to find God??
And I'm not gossipping,if you aren't going to answer the question,then don't answer at all and stop being a bitch
 
just because there all saying they have sex doesn't mean they are, and who cares if they are, do your own thing
 
Why do u openly speak about your private life. Maybe most of your classmates or even friends are still virgin but they make up those stories to become more popular.
So stop gossiping and snooping into other people lives to make a decision about yours.
Do it when u feel it is the right time and u feel comfortable.
Meantime, say whatever u want to, mostly say what people expect to hear. In this way they will think you are really cool and u will keep doing what u really want into your private life.
 
being a virgin is a good thing. I'm a virgin so your not the only one. Don't worry about your friends, just because your a virgin doesn't mean your a loser or an outcast nor dose it mean your going to be single forever. Stay a virgin till you get married, your on the right track.
 
wow man.
seriously rise above the influence.
just cause everyones having sex doesnt mean you should.
dude dont waste it, true love waits.
your "friends" should accept you for who you are not whether you have sex or not.
are you seriously tripping over this?? wow..
 
Girl dont fall into peer pressure cause i did cause I wanteed to talk about it but if ya really listen to it all the girls that talk about that guys really dont have respect for them. I say good for you WAIT TILL YOU GET MARRIED youll be better off than being there with all yor friends saying "ya my bf fu-cked me last night" youll feel good cause you put in your apinooin but after that what do you have? nothing except a sore vagina
 
why would you force your self to have sex waiting for marriage is good you don't have to worry about getting stds . save your self.
 
are you saying other people's opinions are more important than your own? Do you value yourself?

Do what you want to do. Don't live for others. And it is a big deal. It won't make you feel good to have sex with someone. It won't fill the loneliness you have.

You need to start loving yourself. and work on your self esteem. go and either see a counsellor to work on self esteem. or perhaps you need to find god
 
I understand where you're coming from, I was in the same situation when I was in high school. Don't give in to having sex just because everyone else is doing it. I didn't and now in college I have a wonderful boyfriend who understands that I don't want to have sex until marriage and is okay with that. You will not be single forever and it is a big deal to loose it when you aren't ready. Wait. Wait for the guy who will accept you and your decisions about sex because that will be the one worth staying with. I'm sorry you're feeling all this pressure but it's really no one else's concern that you aren't having sex. It's your decision and they should not be giving you a hard time about it. Please really think about what you want and not what everyone else wants. Hope this helps, best of luck :).
 
WAIT FOR MARRIAGE.... When there in high school they will be the sluts with std's and u will be clean :)*
 
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