First off my wife and I get along pretty good for the most part. (as long as I do things to make her happy). But as sOon as I even ask about sex she gets pissed off. I can do everythin, house chores, work, give her money, rub her, spend time with her. But as soon as I tell her I wanna get some is like all hell breaking loose. Then when she puts out it sucks. She makes it hard to get in, she don't wanna let me get it wet, then she b###es that it hurts. But I get it so rearly that the house could be on fire and I probably wouldn't stop until I'm done. I think they sometime it hurts her because she try's to make it hard for me to get in. But what I don't get is that ont the few times she enjoys it, it feels like parking a bike in an airplain hanger. Or a bowl of warm water. I couldn't hit thus walls if I tried. Anyways, I love her, and she loves me, she just don't wanna do it. But I am a man, and I have needs, and I'm shouldn't have to take care of myself.
FYI, I am 29, she is 24, we have a 4 yr old son. She nolonger works and I do. But she don't do anything around the house.
Anyways, if she don't wanna put out, then why shouldn't I be allowed to have someone for sex on the side?? I could even go without haveing sex with her if I was allowed to have casual sex. I need, and yes, NEED sex twice a week, I could even go to once a week for her, but she would be fine with twice a year. And I mean sex, I could jack off every day, even 4 times a day every day, and still need sex atleast once a week, and when I don't get any for more then 4-5 days I become uptight and irritable, don't wanna get up in the morning, don't wanna do anything.
Now don't get me wrong, I love her, and she makes me happy other than this. I have tried to do things to get her in the mood, but nothing works.. And when she does put out, it is the worse sex I have ever had!! And I don't think it's me, because I have asked girls I have been with and they all tell me that i know what I'm doing
I even have girls I know, we both know, ask why do I put up with it, some have even offered to be just a sex tool for me. Like sex was good when we first hooked up, we did it like more than once a day almost every day, for like 1 1/2 years, then it just became less and less, noe she was never into kink, or oral, and I don't need to receive but I wanna give. But it's been 9 years and I have never gone down. I could go with out sex if I could have something to eat!! (lol) but she thinks that's sick. Her mom is the same way I hear.
Should I just find a friend to be on the down low with?? She tells me all the time that if I wanna get laid to go and get it from someone else, but I know that as soon as I do that and she finds out, it over. And I'm not going to give her anyreason to win custody of our son. And I have things to use on my side if I ever had to fight for him. But I like being with her, I just wish she would like to have sex with me.
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I like Jane idea. I think about that all the time, but she would call the cOps.
And for the other answer, sex and love are two different thing and for me I can have sex with someone and not love them and well I love someone and don't have sex with her.
Sex and love are two totally different things and create different reactions in the brain also. So good try but I don't have to feel a thing about a person to have sex with them, I don't even need to know there name!!!
She don't like fourplay, she thinks it sick that I wanna touch her down ther with my fingers.
She don't wanna talk!!
I try, it just starts fights!
Nothing new has happen, my mom takes our son all the time, he goes to school. I cook (she can't)!!
This isnt new, she don't wanna talk about it,
She would be happy If I just didn't wanna have sex (like her).
I don't see change, but I would be willing to do anything.
FYI, I am 29, she is 24, we have a 4 yr old son. She nolonger works and I do. But she don't do anything around the house.
Anyways, if she don't wanna put out, then why shouldn't I be allowed to have someone for sex on the side?? I could even go without haveing sex with her if I was allowed to have casual sex. I need, and yes, NEED sex twice a week, I could even go to once a week for her, but she would be fine with twice a year. And I mean sex, I could jack off every day, even 4 times a day every day, and still need sex atleast once a week, and when I don't get any for more then 4-5 days I become uptight and irritable, don't wanna get up in the morning, don't wanna do anything.
Now don't get me wrong, I love her, and she makes me happy other than this. I have tried to do things to get her in the mood, but nothing works.. And when she does put out, it is the worse sex I have ever had!! And I don't think it's me, because I have asked girls I have been with and they all tell me that i know what I'm doing
I even have girls I know, we both know, ask why do I put up with it, some have even offered to be just a sex tool for me. Like sex was good when we first hooked up, we did it like more than once a day almost every day, for like 1 1/2 years, then it just became less and less, noe she was never into kink, or oral, and I don't need to receive but I wanna give. But it's been 9 years and I have never gone down. I could go with out sex if I could have something to eat!! (lol) but she thinks that's sick. Her mom is the same way I hear.
Should I just find a friend to be on the down low with?? She tells me all the time that if I wanna get laid to go and get it from someone else, but I know that as soon as I do that and she finds out, it over. And I'm not going to give her anyreason to win custody of our son. And I have things to use on my side if I ever had to fight for him. But I like being with her, I just wish she would like to have sex with me.
Added 38 minutes ago
Also when we first sta
I like Jane idea. I think about that all the time, but she would call the cOps.
And for the other answer, sex and love are two different thing and for me I can have sex with someone and not love them and well I love someone and don't have sex with her.
Sex and love are two totally different things and create different reactions in the brain also. So good try but I don't have to feel a thing about a person to have sex with them, I don't even need to know there name!!!
She don't like fourplay, she thinks it sick that I wanna touch her down ther with my fingers.
She don't wanna talk!!
I try, it just starts fights!
Nothing new has happen, my mom takes our son all the time, he goes to school. I cook (she can't)!!
This isnt new, she don't wanna talk about it,
She would be happy If I just didn't wanna have sex (like her).
I don't see change, but I would be willing to do anything.