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Venisha
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Ok so im 15 and when i was 12 i dated my best friend bethanie(im bisexual).We dated for exactly 1 year but we broke up when i was 13 because we weren't right for each other.when we were going out i told her if i was ever to have sex with a girl it would be her. Last week she asked me if i would have sex with her i said no because i have a boyfriend his name is jose.Then like 2 days ago jose asked me if i would have sex with him i said no because i don't want to have sex till im in love.Then yesterday they were both at my house and Beth said that its not sex if you do it with a girl.They started talking to me about a deal they made.They said i could have "sex" with Beth and videotape it.Jose said if i videotape it and give the tape to him he'll stop bothering me for sex.I told them i would think about it.So what i need to know is if i have sex with a girl does it count as loosing my virginity? What do you think i should have do? I need help i have apsolutly no idea what to do!!