Should I have sex with my best friend I am in love with?

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So, I met my best friend in grade six and I fell in love with her right away pretty much, never stop thinking about her and we became extremely close over the past few years. We went to grad together, but I never knew if she liked me back and I didn't want to ruin the friendship. Anyways, I found out she did about 2 weeks ago and she dreamt of us getting married, having kids, and spending our lives together like I had always pictured as well. She says she isn't ready to date me though because it would be serious instantly and her family always marries their first major significant other and the pressure on us would be insane. Also, from all of our mutual friends as well since we are just out of high school. We are going to be touring Africa in the summer for 2 weeks together as well and we couldn't date before then because that would complicate the trip since its with her family and sisters. Anyways, we have discussed lately having sex soon since she is still a virgin and has wanted to lose it to me. She was devastated when she found out I had sex with 2 other girls previously since she pictured it each being our first time.

How do you think having sex will complicate the relationship since we have decided not to date for a while, maybe even years since we wouldn't want to get married until our mid 20's anyways and we need to see other people first to make sure we aren't missing out on that important aspect.
 
im in the almost same situation, only im .. younger lets say, not the sexual parts, but im in love with my best friend and i have been in love with him for quiet some time, i also pictured the many things you and her have pictured. it is quiet astonishing, no?
obviously, you two have been talking about it lately, which means shes interested, as are you, get to the point in your relationship were your having serious talks about this, and no the risks and consequences, shes willing to give up her virginity to you, sex does tend to ruin relationships, but you will know if its truly meant to be if you and her stay as strong as yous were throughout the lifetime you've known each other.
 
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