So my aunt and uncle are having their 50th wedding anniversary thing in january...my uncle is very very sick. like deadly. the last time i saw him was in hawaii in june-thats where they live. we had soo much fun together on the beach. We are really close. he was like the 2nd person to hold me when i was born
anyway, i have 2 options:
fly out to hawaii for the anniversary and see my uncle for the last time. while we are there, he might pass away and i dont know if i can handle that. but i want to be there for his last moments.
or
just remember him as i saw him in june. and not see him really sick.
What would you do in this situation?
Thank you so much.

anyway, i have 2 options:
fly out to hawaii for the anniversary and see my uncle for the last time. while we are there, he might pass away and i dont know if i can handle that. but i want to be there for his last moments.
or
just remember him as i saw him in june. and not see him really sick.
What would you do in this situation?
Thank you so much.