Right now im not seeing any other options but to join the military. Im in college and im a single parent and i am also engaged and even with my fiance's graduation this year and mine as well as you know the economy is like %#@ and we cant find decent jobs to save our lives. i know that it is a really BIG sacrifice to go into the military but i know that if i want my family to have a successful life that sacrifices do need to be made. I guess what im asking is even with all the dangers of going would it be wise to still go looking at all the benefits it could bring not only to me but my family as well?