My husband and I have been married for 10 months. We had a number of issues before our marriage, but unfortunately since our wedding cost so much, we could not back out at the last minute. We struggled our first few months and now are okay- although I am not really interested in him in a romantic way. I feel a large component of our marital discord is my extreme interest in having children and his complete disinterest. We discussed children before the marriage, but since my husband is very stubborn and opinionated the conversations were always cut short because "he didn't want to discuss something that wasn't going to happen... tomorrow..." I am 27 years old and my husband is 29. Do you think I should leave him now, or wait until he is ready to have the children discussion? He has mentioned that he will "have kids someday" but everyday I feel that that is a ploy to get me to silence my initial discussion. I feel that children are the most important aspect of life and plan to stay home and raise them. What should I do? I feel I have made a mistake in choosing a mate, but also know I am being impatient and naive. Are my husband's views normal for his age? Any ideas?