should i forgive my boyfriend for sex on a break?

  • Thread starter Thread starter confusedp
  • Start date Start date
C

confusedp

Guest
My boyfriend and i were having a lot of problems we have been together for almost a year. I ended up breaking up with him over the phone, 2 days later he slept with his ex girlfriend from 5 years ago. He didnt tell me, I spent the next week telling/begging him for us to work it out he said he needed more time, I left town he slept with her again. Then when I got back he said he was sorry he wanted to make up and move forward. he told me he saw her but not that they had slept together. She told me on a facebook message!!!! I love him and want to move on but i cant stop thinking about it? should i forgive him?
 
I wouldn't. I wouldn't be able to live with the fact that he had sex with another girl! omg! I cant get over the fact that my bf has talked and text other girls. I wouldn't be able to do this.
 
No. Sorry honey but this guy is not worth your time. You may think he is one right now, but if he is having thoughts about other girls, then he might stray again.
 
My piece of advice: If he does it once, he'll do it again. Give him a chance, he'll cheat behind your back. Don't be easy on him...I'm not a person who isn't forgiving but the bad thing is that, even if you want to forgive them, then they take advantage of your love and manipulate you. Don't let him get his way; be strong, I know it's difficult but take this example...I don't know where you are from but there's this English singer, her name is Cheryl Cole (members of band Girls Aloud) and her husband Ashley Cole, a football player had cheated on her. She decided to give him a second chance, and here he goes again, found in a pub, drinking, arrested, and having a sexy time with an unknown woman. THERE ARE A MILLION OTHER BOYFRIENDS WAITING FOR YOU OUT THERE. But still, if you really don't want to leave him then spend some time apart, and show him that you're hard to earn back and you don't forgive easily.
 
you guys were broken up so technically he could do whatever with whomever he wanted.

If you want to be with him, forgive him and move on.
 
Back
Top