She was sweet when she was around. However, after her business closed and we didn't see each other regularly. It was like she forgot all about me. I guess I need to give some background information. I was her waitress and she was my boss, and the owner of the business. We were extremely close and I was also close with her sister. Her sister and her always fought and this caused the business to close, but before it closed--everyone was kinda forced to take sides. I took my friends side and I quit just a few weeks before it closed. Ever since then I feel like I get treated like crap. She only has time when it's CONVENIENT for her. I was there for her when her sister treated her badly, when all her friends walked out of her life, and even when she went through her depression. Being I was 16 til now, I'm 20. I've done more than any person, my age would do. I gave her friendship, caring, and understanding. I went to her the other day, when I truly needed her. She responded via text as I text her. Oh stop it! As I said ya know I truly feel like no one cares and I really need someone to talk to. She goes I'll be online later. However, I went to sleep. She called me the next day and goes sorry I didn't get online last night, but I wanted to see if you were ok and I love you. This voice mail followed my post on Facebook saying I see every time I need someone, I have to always still strong for myself because no one is around. And true friends are there even when it's not as convenient for them. Other instances were I was lucky to see or hear from her once a month and sometimes two. She always said nice things but her actions made me feel like she didn't appreciate me or our friendship. Well I took her off Facebook and out of my contacts, but I feel terrible. She sent me a text message on the 22nd and said I just wanted to say hi. This also following a message, I sent the night before saying you know I miss you, and I wish I heard from you more often. Then I text her Christmas Eve even though I deleted her from my phone and said Merry Christmas and she replied Merry Christmas to you too!!! I regret ending my friendship with her but I really don't think I can fix it. She always tells me, that you either accept the friendship the way it is or not. And I did what I thought was best for both of us. But now, I'm hurting still. At first, it felt like a weight was lifted. Any ideas of why I'm regretting this?
She's 58 and I'm 21. Both females. She was like an aunt to me
She's 58 and I'm 21. Both females. She was like an aunt to me