A year ago, I dated a girl, changed my life, and brought me to church. Met a lot of people, including another girl she hated who wasn't as "tied down" as she was if you catch my drift. Anyways, I didn't think to much of her. When me and the other girl broke up, she was trying to temp me. Almost succeeding. But I was down about the girl before and forced her away. I ended up, starting to treat her like the whore I though she was. We stopped talking, but we weren't fighting or anything like that. A year later, after a 3 month absence from church, I decide to come over the pastors house, and she's there. Only problem is, she's completely different. She changed so much, I was amazed. She continues to amaze me. She's so easy to talk to now, and it seems her whole life has been turned around. We hungout at the movies and I held her hand through it becuase she was getting scared. I didn't say a word. We see each other all the time at church and alwways talk. She tells me she's my best friend, and jokes about how I only like a particular type of girl. I blow it off a lot. My first day coming back to the church, my ex told me it's OK if I date someone in the church. Keep in mind it's a year later, and I just got back. I ask her, "are you impllying that I would date someone in the church after I dated you?" She didn't answer the question and walked away. Later, maybe a month or so later, the pastor himself pulled both of us away (me and the girl, not my ex), and asked us if we liked each other. We both said no. I know I did because it was awkward. I don't know about her. Anyways, that weirded me out a bit. I know for a fact that I'm into her. She's becoming one of the coolest people I've ever met. We have a lot of fun together with the crew. My original plan was to wait two years to make a move on her, becuase I'm transfering from community college to a university then, and that way, the church doesn't have to be part of it since I'm gone, and she'll be out of high school. That said, I hold back from saying a lot on this topic to her. She tells me about the guys she "talks" to, and doesn't seem to like the girls I "talk" to. I don't want anybody like I want her, it's crazy. But, I guess what I'm saying is, should I wait like I planned, make a move sooner, or just move on all together?