Almost 3 months ago, my ex and I broke up. We've been together for a year. We took a break during xmas time.
Things got rough around the end, but we both understand we never tried hard enough as a couple.
We stopped talking for a month or so, but recently in the past month started speaking again after the time we needed apart.
We're currently close, and friends.
We had a long talk about things and both decided we need to be friends for a while, date sometimes to see how we're doing (if we still have that spark) and then sometime down the road be a couple once again (if its possible. Meaning if we get along well and things go well).
During this time with both promised we'd never be with anyone else, that we wouldnt even as much as flirt with another person.
We are still having sex, because we trust one another and it's something we both enjoy.
Should I still continue to have sex? or should I cut it off to give him something more to come back to?
We really want to work things out and be better once again. We both really want to be together now but both know its best to work on ourselves before that possibly happens again.
Any help or advice?
Please be kind, I'm confused enough as it is.
Thanks
We aren't offically dating, but we are very close.
We are going through this process right now to see if we can still get along. The reasons for our breakup are reasons we realized we needed to work on later.
We need this time apart to work on ourselves without hurting one another in a relationship.
There is a chance we will never be together again. But we both want and hope that in the end we'll be together once again.
But i do know in my heart he will not be with other people. He still loves me with his whole heart. Thats the thing.
I'm so confused on what to do.
Neither of us want to be apart from each other really.
Things got rough around the end, but we both understand we never tried hard enough as a couple.
We stopped talking for a month or so, but recently in the past month started speaking again after the time we needed apart.
We're currently close, and friends.
We had a long talk about things and both decided we need to be friends for a while, date sometimes to see how we're doing (if we still have that spark) and then sometime down the road be a couple once again (if its possible. Meaning if we get along well and things go well).
During this time with both promised we'd never be with anyone else, that we wouldnt even as much as flirt with another person.
We are still having sex, because we trust one another and it's something we both enjoy.
Should I still continue to have sex? or should I cut it off to give him something more to come back to?
We really want to work things out and be better once again. We both really want to be together now but both know its best to work on ourselves before that possibly happens again.
Any help or advice?
Please be kind, I'm confused enough as it is.
Thanks
We aren't offically dating, but we are very close.
We are going through this process right now to see if we can still get along. The reasons for our breakup are reasons we realized we needed to work on later.
We need this time apart to work on ourselves without hurting one another in a relationship.
There is a chance we will never be together again. But we both want and hope that in the end we'll be together once again.
But i do know in my heart he will not be with other people. He still loves me with his whole heart. Thats the thing.
I'm so confused on what to do.
Neither of us want to be apart from each other really.