Should I contenue with having sex with my gay guy friend?

[xconlinda]

I'm a straight girl and I think i'm falling for my gay male friend. We know each othere for four years. ive never had a friendship like this before. I am real falling for him and go to the same school. (that's how we met.) He claims that he is bi but he is just into gays at this piont in his life. We are very touchy feely with each other hugging, pecking, snuggling. but i have been in a striaght relationship for 1 year now, and that man is the one I thought I would marriey. Me and that boyfriend has had sexual intiment problem for a long time. this missi got my self into is messing with my emotions. this gay guy has other gay guys on the side on top of that. so just the other night, after drinking (alot i want over his has, and he came onto me) we made out then it got hot and we had sex. Im totally freaking out. i dont want him to think im pressuring him to be with me, but he's such a good lover and i can;t stop thinking about it! I don't want to ruin such an awesome friendship, and I dont want to hart my boyfriend. But I dont see my boy friend in the same way after beining with my gay guy friend. what should I do????

 

[Kammie C]

Its surely is not fair to your boyfriend. So just break it off and be with your gay friend. If he has feelings for you , then it will go on longer. But if not you''ll just have to see what happens.

Good luck

 

[charm.]

omg thats hard..but u dont wnat to lose that friendship..so that tells u the best decision for you..as for your boyfriend..i understand u dont want to hurt his feelings and the best way not to do that is by being real with him and tell him how u feel about the whole situation..

 

[Kim W]

Ok your mixed up here. STOP join a youth group and ask the Lord our God for guidance in your prayers. By the way sexually transmitted diseases are common with multiple partners. Climidia for example and that can lead to cervicaal cancer and will effect you being able to conceive children. So get check ups at a clinic, and I am being very real with you here.