Should I confront my brother-in-law after I caught him taking my daughter's underwear?

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A couple of days ago my husband and I had some family over. My brother-in-law (husband's brother) was one of the people who came over. We were chatting in the living when my brother-in-law got up and left. I just assumed he got bored and left or went to use the restroom. We carried on our conversation. I had taken some pictures on my digital camera from a recent trip and my aunt wanted to see them. I went upstairs to grab my digital camera from my bedroom and on my way there I saw my brother-in-law in my daughter's bedroom. I didn't think much of it and I proceeded to get my camera from my room. On my way back downstairs I saw my brother-in-law stuffing a pair of my daughter's panties into his pants pocket. At first I was a little confused. I ran through tons of scenarios and tried to justify why he would take my daughter's underwear. My daughter is only 11 years old and I don't want to accept the fact that my brother-in-law is a pervert. If my daughter was older I probably wouldn't be so angry or still thinking so deeply about what happened, but she is still a child. My daughter has spent a lot of time with him and his wife over the years, but now I wonder if I should keep my daughter away from him and what excuse I can make to not let her see him. I have not yet told anybody about what I saw that day and my brother-in-law doesn't know I saw what he did. I've decided I wouldn't tell my husband. Should I confront my brother-in-law about what he did?
 
i think u should tell ur husband bc i mean there are alot of creeps out there and even though u might not wanna think about ur brother in law doing anything to ur daughter you never now
 
Call the cops. Chances are he has some child porn or something on his computer that they can bust him for.
 
YES YOU SHOULD this guy could be some kind of sick pervert!! ok older id understand but 11 years old!!! he could b some kind of rapist!!!
 
Yes i would confront him and soon to it might not just be your child at risk how many other young kids is he around and tell my husband to.your playing with fire on this one.
 
yep!=]
definitely you should confront is your brother-in-law because i think you should have the right to know why he got your daughter's underwear.....
that's just too weird.
 
Well personally that is a bit sickening. I think you should tell your husband but he might take it badly. So I understand your decision. I think just keep your daughter away from him or supervise her if she is with him. Do you think he'd be fine if you asked him about it? Or maybe speak to his wife. Good luck with this.
 
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