I have been married for 11 years and just before christmas i was out with my girlfriends and i met a guy. He was 20 and incredibly attractive. I was dancing with him- which is kind of ok, by which i mean my husband knows that when I go out he is aware i casually occasionally dance with guys and he says thats fine and he trusts me...however i really liked him more than i ever have before (i normally rarely speak to the guys just dance in a kind of group situation) and we were chatting all night and i had a great night and stupidly gave him my number and we also kissed twice (not tongues but proper kiss) he (and i ) have text many times and he has been trying to see me but i have been putting it off because i felt i should not see him again but didnt say no exactly because i was enjoying chatting with him...anyway i have now told him not to text again and we cant see each other again etc and i am happy in my mind now that this was the right thing to do before anything worse happened.
Oddly, my marriage and sex life is pretty good so not sure why i did this
Problem is i dont know if i should confess all to my husband or pretend it never happened. My husband would be pissed off about it but he wouldnt be too bad i am sure. Certainly would not end the marriage! So is it worth the row?
would you want to know if it were you?
have you ever been in this position on either side?
i might add that my husband and I have 3 chidren between 6 and 11 yrs old. Over the last year my husband has taken a job which involved him travelling a lot to and from his work. He took job as it is a huge step up the ladder and a highly paid position in what he loves doing. I support him in this. however, it does mean he gets home a lot later than he used to, and I rarely see him and i have full parental responsibilty from getting the kids up- ready for school- taking them to school- and sorting/organising everything they need. I also have responsibility for after school clubs etc.
I work too I am a teacher.
I dont mind this, i was aware of this when we discussed the job offer at the time. I like taking care of my kids but it is hard work. My husband frequently sleeps away in hotels too. We text and chat on internet when he is away but its not the same as seeing him. So, the result is i feel quite lonely in the evenings after the kids are asleep and shattered with parental responsi
to answer some questions- yes i had my wedding ring on and i did mention i was married. He also told me he was 22 when i met him. I look very young for my age i always get asked for id here in the UK i am guessing he thought i was about 25...though i did tell him by text i was actually 30.
Oddly, my marriage and sex life is pretty good so not sure why i did this
Problem is i dont know if i should confess all to my husband or pretend it never happened. My husband would be pissed off about it but he wouldnt be too bad i am sure. Certainly would not end the marriage! So is it worth the row?
would you want to know if it were you?
have you ever been in this position on either side?
i might add that my husband and I have 3 chidren between 6 and 11 yrs old. Over the last year my husband has taken a job which involved him travelling a lot to and from his work. He took job as it is a huge step up the ladder and a highly paid position in what he loves doing. I support him in this. however, it does mean he gets home a lot later than he used to, and I rarely see him and i have full parental responsibilty from getting the kids up- ready for school- taking them to school- and sorting/organising everything they need. I also have responsibility for after school clubs etc.
I work too I am a teacher.
I dont mind this, i was aware of this when we discussed the job offer at the time. I like taking care of my kids but it is hard work. My husband frequently sleeps away in hotels too. We text and chat on internet when he is away but its not the same as seeing him. So, the result is i feel quite lonely in the evenings after the kids are asleep and shattered with parental responsi
to answer some questions- yes i had my wedding ring on and i did mention i was married. He also told me he was 22 when i met him. I look very young for my age i always get asked for id here in the UK i am guessing he thought i was about 25...though i did tell him by text i was actually 30.