flightsuit
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I've already committed to the idea, and I'm sure that I'll do it, but I'm wondering how he'll take it. I mean, I know everyone is different, but I'd still like some input.
So the story is that I just graduated highschool early, and next fall, I'm leaving for college. My junior year, I moved to another school and met a boy who I immediately liked. I had some trouble with him because he teased often, and I was a shy sort of person. I felt lots of emotions and many times was angry, but somehow I guess I liked the interaction as well. He was rude but was also nice sometimes. I held back many things I wanted to say to him, and towards the end of the year I think he believed I hated him. His friend told me he liked me and he didn't deny it. But at the end of the year, he seemed to perhaps be 'over me' I guess? I moved that summer and have spent senior year in another state.
Anyway, I'm not sure if I've ever been in love. I've had plenty of long crushes, but I think what I felt may have been love or close to love. I don't really know.
Well, to get to the point, now that you know the backstory, I am thinking of sending him a message telling him my feelings after he graduates/the school I used to go to lets out (may-june or so). I don't expect anything out of it other than the fact that I've finally said what I wanted to say. I hope that he would reply, but I am not trying to provoke a romantic reaction. It would be nice if he said his thoughts as well, and even if he told me he didn't like me, I'd still be happy to hear it.
I told myself I didn't like him anymore. but although I've moved, he's still the only guy I've felt anything similar for, even though I had chances this year with guys I normally would've been interested in.
My question to you is, IF YOU WERE HIM, HOW WOULD YOU REACT, and WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT ME SENDING MY CONFESSION?
i'm trying to be brave and do something i've never done before.
*edit
i never dated him and don't live in the same state as anymore.
also, i don't see how I could have chased him away, since i tried to show him that i liked him and was not mean to him (well maybe once when he was really pushing it)
thanks, i appreciate your answers.
May GOD'S Blessings, Favor, and Mercy be upon you, your family, and your situation forever!
thanks again.
So the story is that I just graduated highschool early, and next fall, I'm leaving for college. My junior year, I moved to another school and met a boy who I immediately liked. I had some trouble with him because he teased often, and I was a shy sort of person. I felt lots of emotions and many times was angry, but somehow I guess I liked the interaction as well. He was rude but was also nice sometimes. I held back many things I wanted to say to him, and towards the end of the year I think he believed I hated him. His friend told me he liked me and he didn't deny it. But at the end of the year, he seemed to perhaps be 'over me' I guess? I moved that summer and have spent senior year in another state.
Anyway, I'm not sure if I've ever been in love. I've had plenty of long crushes, but I think what I felt may have been love or close to love. I don't really know.
Well, to get to the point, now that you know the backstory, I am thinking of sending him a message telling him my feelings after he graduates/the school I used to go to lets out (may-june or so). I don't expect anything out of it other than the fact that I've finally said what I wanted to say. I hope that he would reply, but I am not trying to provoke a romantic reaction. It would be nice if he said his thoughts as well, and even if he told me he didn't like me, I'd still be happy to hear it.
I told myself I didn't like him anymore. but although I've moved, he's still the only guy I've felt anything similar for, even though I had chances this year with guys I normally would've been interested in.
My question to you is, IF YOU WERE HIM, HOW WOULD YOU REACT, and WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT ME SENDING MY CONFESSION?
i'm trying to be brave and do something i've never done before.
*edit
i never dated him and don't live in the same state as anymore.
also, i don't see how I could have chased him away, since i tried to show him that i liked him and was not mean to him (well maybe once when he was really pushing it)
thanks, i appreciate your answers.
May GOD'S Blessings, Favor, and Mercy be upon you, your family, and your situation forever!
thanks again.