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Josie
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we have he discusses with his? friends and acquaintances. When I say friends and acquaintances I do not mean one, two, three or even four people. He will talk to people abroad, people at his work, people at other universities [he is an academic], even people he does not know very well. Even the guy who paints and decorates for him!!
I am a very private person and resent him talking about the ins and outs of our relationship with everyone. I find it a little odd to be honest with you. We were trying to decide whether to try for a child and he told over 28 people about my desire for a child and his desire not to have one.
Why is he doing this? I have asked him not to and finally I flipped last night and said over the phone that if he did not stop it the relationship would be over. I am just not used to men being gossips. I simply do not discuss the minutiae of our relationship with my family and friends and do not understand why he is doing it.
Moreover he is only discusssing the whole thing with people who
he believes will agree with him.
i have asked him whether he would like me to discuss the fact that he is into BDSM with his colleagues at work?? [I am not by the way!!!] to see how he likes it.
David P are you really that stupid? Have I named him? Have I? He tlaks about me by name to everyone. These people know me. So if I have done the same then name my partner. Tell me where he works? Go on! You cannot as I have nto identified him!!! BIG DIFFERENCE!!!!!
I am a very private person and resent him talking about the ins and outs of our relationship with everyone. I find it a little odd to be honest with you. We were trying to decide whether to try for a child and he told over 28 people about my desire for a child and his desire not to have one.
Why is he doing this? I have asked him not to and finally I flipped last night and said over the phone that if he did not stop it the relationship would be over. I am just not used to men being gossips. I simply do not discuss the minutiae of our relationship with my family and friends and do not understand why he is doing it.
Moreover he is only discusssing the whole thing with people who
he believes will agree with him.
i have asked him whether he would like me to discuss the fact that he is into BDSM with his colleagues at work?? [I am not by the way!!!] to see how he likes it.
David P are you really that stupid? Have I named him? Have I? He tlaks about me by name to everyone. These people know me. So if I have done the same then name my partner. Tell me where he works? Go on! You cannot as I have nto identified him!!! BIG DIFFERENCE!!!!!