I do not drive, in fact I am actually scared to ( let's just say there are a few damaged fences out there) . My boyfriend usually drives me places, and I do take the bus when he can't help me. We live together, and have for almost 3 years. I only have my permit, but I am willing to get my license, which is obviously the first step. My boyfriend has an 89 Camaro, I really don't like driving it, he gave me lessons. It's big, and I can't see behind me most of the time. I have a friend who is willing to let me buy her car, it's in my price range, mostly. He often complains that I make him drive me places, and that I don't always put gas in the car. He thinks that when I get my license, we should share the car, and I already know how that will end up. I just see it as a fight waiting to happen. He hates it when people take off with his car, don't put gas in it, and make him drive them around. Not only do we use his car, but his mother and sister often need it as well. I have a family of my own though. I would like to give my mom rides to the doctor, pick my little brother up from the store, and generally take the car where I want. I want a car of my own, which in a way makes me more independent. I don't want to have to ask for permission to take the car. The problem is the last time it came up that I wanted a car, he brought up that we could share his. I said I would drop it, but this opportunity came knocking once again. In a way, I want to do it anyway, but I don't want to hurt his feelings, I don't want to go behind his back. What should I do? Should I get the car, and work with him on the details, or forget about it again?
Please no jokes about my driving skills and fences, believe me that sucked enough lol!
Please no jokes about my driving skills and fences, believe me that sucked enough lol!