...the staff at her gym? I've been dating this girl for over a year, she lives about 6 hours away. She goes to the gym religiously twice a day. Recently she's been telling me more and more about the staff at her gym (mostly guys). I don't want to seem like a jealous freak, but I keep seeing new facebook friends from the gym, she's now working with them part time. When I confront her and tell her that from a guy's perspective, they're probably hitting on her, she gets really defensive. I know girls love the attention they get at the gym, but what do I do when it's my own girl?