Leopard Print
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A 19-year-old girl and a shy 20-year-old guy have liked each other for about 10 months. At first, there was lots of staring on the guy's part, locking eyes from across the room, he would innocently try to touch me, but then the summer happened. After the break, we’re back at school and go to an organization together. Again, there was staring and when I try to ask him for help on school-related things, he agrees to help. But, when I chat him up about his personal life, he gets nervous, can't maintain eye contact, and answers quickly without looking into my eyes too often. He never initiates conversation with me and doesn't say hi unless I say it first. I often see him talking to other girls and he doesn't seem to have a problem talking to them and being outgoing.
During the past few weeks, we've started hanging out more and more in a group setting and i've noticed that he'll remember little things about me and try to bring them up. he's also started to tease me a little, in a non-harmful way. his best friend also acknowledges me now and chats me up, meaning i think my guy told him about me. i gave the guy i like my phone number about three weeks ago, and even told him that it'd be cool if he went with me, but he hasn't done anything about it...
i called him on it in public and asked him if we're still on, and he pretended to not know what i was talking about, but then said maybe. he was just acting really weird, but then kept staring at me later in the evening. now, he still stares at me and angles his body in my direction all the time but never talks to me.
Flash forward to today. Our organization had a huge dressy event. We were all dressed up and looking good. My shy guy didn’t even say hi to me. I caught him looking at me from across the room many times, but he never came up to me to chat.
I feel like I’ve been perfectly obvious… here i gave him my number and signaled interest, but he hasn't done anything about it.
What should i do??
During the past few weeks, we've started hanging out more and more in a group setting and i've noticed that he'll remember little things about me and try to bring them up. he's also started to tease me a little, in a non-harmful way. his best friend also acknowledges me now and chats me up, meaning i think my guy told him about me. i gave the guy i like my phone number about three weeks ago, and even told him that it'd be cool if he went with me, but he hasn't done anything about it...
i called him on it in public and asked him if we're still on, and he pretended to not know what i was talking about, but then said maybe. he was just acting really weird, but then kept staring at me later in the evening. now, he still stares at me and angles his body in my direction all the time but never talks to me.
Flash forward to today. Our organization had a huge dressy event. We were all dressed up and looking good. My shy guy didn’t even say hi to me. I caught him looking at me from across the room many times, but he never came up to me to chat.
I feel like I’ve been perfectly obvious… here i gave him my number and signaled interest, but he hasn't done anything about it.
What should i do??