Should I ask for help or go through the csa?
I had a child very young the father made my life a living hell broke into my house threatened me and her etc when he took me to court he never turned up so after the 6 week review it was squashed. Me and my daughter moved away and now she is 16. I have never had any financial help for her and now since losing my job in December we are struggling! Do I ask her father for money to help and if so how do I do it we live a fair distance from him and I've discussed it with her she dosent want to see him and understand this could open a new can of worms so to speak so please do I contact him and ask for help or not? Only honest and none sarcastic advice please!!!
I had a child very young the father made my life a living hell broke into my house threatened me and her etc when he took me to court he never turned up so after the 6 week review it was squashed. Me and my daughter moved away and now she is 16. I have never had any financial help for her and now since losing my job in December we are struggling! Do I ask her father for money to help and if so how do I do it we live a fair distance from him and I've discussed it with her she dosent want to see him and understand this could open a new can of worms so to speak so please do I contact him and ask for help or not? Only honest and none sarcastic advice please!!!