Should I allow him to see the children when he gets out of jail?

[Park]

My kids father went to jail for domestic violence. He also has a problem with drugs. Hopefully when he gets out of jail he will have dealt with these issues. I feel that I don't want him to see myself or the kids upon his release not just for the domestic violence and drugs, but because I don't feel that I can ever fully trust him ever again. I don't want to deny their father the right to see his own children, but I also feel that he had 13 years to try to do the right thing and didn't. No mean answers please. The only reason that I am asking is because I feel that my decision might be wrong. After everything that he has put me through over 13 years I feel very hurt, angry and vindictive. I would like an outsiders perspective on the situation. If you have experienced domestic violence, you will understand why I am asking. Also...if anyone is available to email just for support that would be great. The wonderful thing about being free of someone who has controlled you is you finally get to do whatever you want, like hang out with your friends. My problem? I don't have a single friend in the world. Ironic.