'm seriously not a person of a jealous heart. I was never like that. When I see others do good, I praise them and motivate them to be the best they can be. When I see someone doing well or another female looking good and showing off. I praise them for being proud of themselves.
Unfortunately, I think this behavior has it's downside in a relationship. I think my bf is trying to test my affection for him. My bf has been acting strange lately, he's been coming around talking about how attractive a female is and by me being myself, I would agree and compliment the woman who is in the magazine or in person. I will talk about how pretty her smile is, how her clothes compliment her and such. When I do these things, my bf grows quiet and looks a bit off/confused. I talked about this with one of my male friends and he said, "Maybe he feels like you really don't love him and that he's not a prize." When my friend told me this, I start thinking about it. Is this breaking my boyfriends confidence that I don't show jealously towards other females?
I'm not even sure if I know how to act jealous. I'm used to praising others because I'm constantly critiqued negatively and positively on my future profession. I'm in graphic design. Even when I was younger, I faced criticism and I understand criticism. I understand that there will always be a person that's better at what you do and stand for.
Really, can a person with too much confidence run a person off?
WOw..I do tell him he is attractive. I even try to be the best woman I can be for him. I see value in him. He might not be attractive to you but he sure is attractive in my eyes. lol
Unfortunately, I think this behavior has it's downside in a relationship. I think my bf is trying to test my affection for him. My bf has been acting strange lately, he's been coming around talking about how attractive a female is and by me being myself, I would agree and compliment the woman who is in the magazine or in person. I will talk about how pretty her smile is, how her clothes compliment her and such. When I do these things, my bf grows quiet and looks a bit off/confused. I talked about this with one of my male friends and he said, "Maybe he feels like you really don't love him and that he's not a prize." When my friend told me this, I start thinking about it. Is this breaking my boyfriends confidence that I don't show jealously towards other females?
I'm not even sure if I know how to act jealous. I'm used to praising others because I'm constantly critiqued negatively and positively on my future profession. I'm in graphic design. Even when I was younger, I faced criticism and I understand criticism. I understand that there will always be a person that's better at what you do and stand for.
Really, can a person with too much confidence run a person off?
WOw..I do tell him he is attractive. I even try to be the best woman I can be for him. I see value in him. He might not be attractive to you but he sure is attractive in my eyes. lol