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Cassie(:
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Okay so my friends are all having sex and they are telling me to but im scared but at the same time i want to should i should i not?
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T A Y L ☮ R
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I don't think your friends should be, but if they are, I guess that's their choice.
Trust me, if you have to ask whether or not you should have sex on here, then I think you already know the answer.
Wait until you're ready, and only you'll know when that is. If you have to ask anyone other than yourself (and maybe your parents), then you aren't ready.
Trust me, if you have to ask whether or not you should have sex on here, then I think you already know the answer.
Wait until you're ready, and only you'll know when that is. If you have to ask anyone other than yourself (and maybe your parents), then you aren't ready.
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Strawberryx0x0
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What kind of retarded question is this?
go read a d.amn book.
go read a d.amn book.
So, I'm going to start this off by saying I'm 20 years old, not some "old lady" who doesn't remember what it's like to be young.
I think sex should be freer and a lot less taboo than it is in our society today.
That being said, I had sex at fifteen. I thought I was ready. And I thought I loved the guy I was with. It wasn't a terrible experience by any means, but it wasn't at all what I imagined it to be. It wasn't glamorous, it didn't change my view on the world, everything was exactly how it always had been right afterwards.
All sex did for me was make me constantly worry about becoming pregnant. And I'm sure you realize that that's terrifying for a fifteen year old.
Looking back, I feel like I should have waited, at least until I found someone I really cared about--who cared enough about me to make sex special. Because sex should be a special, intimate, ultimately enjoyable experience. I never got that when I was younger.
I think sex should be freer and a lot less taboo than it is in our society today.
That being said, I had sex at fifteen. I thought I was ready. And I thought I loved the guy I was with. It wasn't a terrible experience by any means, but it wasn't at all what I imagined it to be. It wasn't glamorous, it didn't change my view on the world, everything was exactly how it always had been right afterwards.
All sex did for me was make me constantly worry about becoming pregnant. And I'm sure you realize that that's terrifying for a fifteen year old.
Looking back, I feel like I should have waited, at least until I found someone I really cared about--who cared enough about me to make sex special. Because sex should be a special, intimate, ultimately enjoyable experience. I never got that when I was younger.
I had sex when I was 15. I just felt like I wanted to get it over with. HUGE mistake. I set myself up for all kinds of heartbreak. Now the my wonderful fiancee has to look in the face of other guys I have had sex with because it's a small area and everyone knows everyone. It's very awkward. I feel like I left a part of myself with those different guys (3 other than my fiancee) and I can't get it back.
Guys that are around your age that you would have sex with aren't mature enough either. Once you get in a fight with someone you've had sex with they can say all kinds of things about you to other people and you can't exactly prove them wrong.
My suggestion is wait. In a perfect world, everyone would wait until they got married but that isn't the world we live in. Wait until you are with a guy that is planning on staying with you for a very long time whether you have sex with him now or 10 years down the line. Find someone that loves you for more than your body. Even things like making out and some "touching" is a better alternative to actual sex. Think of it this way; Would you want to be delivering and caring for a newborn baby in 9 months? Probably not.
Guys that are around your age that you would have sex with aren't mature enough either. Once you get in a fight with someone you've had sex with they can say all kinds of things about you to other people and you can't exactly prove them wrong.
My suggestion is wait. In a perfect world, everyone would wait until they got married but that isn't the world we live in. Wait until you are with a guy that is planning on staying with you for a very long time whether you have sex with him now or 10 years down the line. Find someone that loves you for more than your body. Even things like making out and some "touching" is a better alternative to actual sex. Think of it this way; Would you want to be delivering and caring for a newborn baby in 9 months? Probably not.
I had sex when I was 15. I just felt like I wanted to get it over with. HUGE mistake. I set myself up for all kinds of heartbreak. Now the my wonderful fiancee has to look in the face of other guys I have had sex with because it's a small area and everyone knows everyone. It's very awkward. I feel like I left a part of myself with those different guys (3 other than my fiancee) and I can't get it back.
Guys that are around your age that you would have sex with aren't mature enough either. Once you get in a fight with someone you've had sex with they can say all kinds of things about you to other people and you can't exactly prove them wrong.
My suggestion is wait. In a perfect world, everyone would wait until they got married but that isn't the world we live in. Wait until you are with a guy that is planning on staying with you for a very long time whether you have sex with him now or 10 years down the line. Find someone that loves you for more than your body. Even things like making out and some "touching" is a better alternative to actual sex. Think of it this way; Would you want to be delivering and caring for a newborn baby in 9 months? Probably not.
Guys that are around your age that you would have sex with aren't mature enough either. Once you get in a fight with someone you've had sex with they can say all kinds of things about you to other people and you can't exactly prove them wrong.
My suggestion is wait. In a perfect world, everyone would wait until they got married but that isn't the world we live in. Wait until you are with a guy that is planning on staying with you for a very long time whether you have sex with him now or 10 years down the line. Find someone that loves you for more than your body. Even things like making out and some "touching" is a better alternative to actual sex. Think of it this way; Would you want to be delivering and caring for a newborn baby in 9 months? Probably not.
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camo girl
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if you're not sure than you're not ready for it and im 16 and havent had sex..there is nothing wrong with it at all!..im going to wait til im married to have sex!..i know i will look different because im not following the crowd but trust me it will all be worth it!..dont do it!..you will feel so much better about yourself! and God doesnt want you doing it either!..so make Him proud and wait! 
hey girly i was in the same place that you were its hard you want to but its a scary thing. I waited until I was 21 and did it with a really great guy we were even together for 6 months before we did. I know many of my friends that ended up getting pregnant and regretted having sex. The choice in the end is up to you but think of the some of the outcomes and then figure if you are ready for it.
Outcomes being:
Pregnancy
STD
People calling you names
and many other things
Outcomes being:
Pregnancy
STD
People calling you names
and many other things