LongGone86
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For a few weeks now I've been exchanging eye contact with a girl at the gym. One night my friend and I saw her running on the tread mill and we both agreed she was hot and joked around. I didn't really have any real valid interest in her. She was looking at us while we were joking around. That same night she walked by me while I was running on the tread mill while she was walking out. I made eye contact with her. She stared at my right into my eyes and didn't even look away. It intimidated me, but at the same time I was impressed because women never make eye contact with me. She slightly smirked at me while she walked out of view. Ever since then I've been attracted to her. For a few weeks we exchange eye contact and nothing more.
I soon found out that she's my friends girlfriends cousin. My friend warned me that she was really shy and was probably still a virgin. He told me she was a nice girl and would be a loyal girlfriend. I've been dumped several times by women who have slept with every guy they've met in the past..so I figured she was definitely a good catch for me. A week ago a saw her at the gym. I arrived just minutes before she did and saw her on the tread mill. I lifted free weights for a while then made my way to free motion by the women's locker room. As soon as I did, she got off of the tread mill and made her way to the locker room. I completely ignored her as she walked right behind me. She made her way into the aerobics room and hung out there for thirty minutes or so. I waited for her to come out but lost my patience and walked into the men's bathroom. As soon as I walked out of the bathroom, she walked out of the room and made her way a pull up machine just feet in front of the room. I made my way over a cable machine by the women's locker room. As soon as I did, she got off of the machine and walked into the locker room. By now I was wondering if she was trying to snag my attention. As soon as she walked out and caught her attention and asked if she went to my high school. She gave me a slightly awkward and shocked look and said, "no.." I kinda' laughed and said, "Well you look really familiar every time I see you in here I think, 'I know her from somewhere' ". She cracked a big grin and laughed. She told me where she went and she asked me what my name was. She told me I didn't sound familiar but continued to smile. She seemed a bit nervous. We reached a dead point in the conversation and she walked off with a smile.
A few nights ago I saw her up at the gym again. I avoided her the entire night just to see if she would approach. While she was leaving she walked in front of me with her face buried in her phone without making any eye contact. I asked, "Hey how are you?" She stopped and smiled and said she was good, I joked around and said, "I know you from somewhere..I'm gonna' figure it out." She laughed and smiled. She asked me what year I was. I told her what my graduation year was and she told me as well. She started some small talk with me and chatted for a few minutes. She told me she she had to go and she walked off with a smile. I haven't seen her in a few days. My friend keeps pushing me to talk to her. He also stated that over the past few days she's been going up during the day instead of during the evening when I go. I was afraid she was avoiding me but he told me not to worry about it. I saw her up at the gym tonight. While she was walking down a isle to leave she noticed me. She was on the phone and as she passed she didn't acknowledge me in anyway. I didn't want to say anything because she was on the phone, but I assumed I would get some acknowledgment. Was she just tying to grab my attention again?
At this point..should I continue to try? I've chased women around for years and I've been dumped and rejected multiple ties. At this point, I'm done trying. I want them to show interest. Does she seem interested?
I soon found out that she's my friends girlfriends cousin. My friend warned me that she was really shy and was probably still a virgin. He told me she was a nice girl and would be a loyal girlfriend. I've been dumped several times by women who have slept with every guy they've met in the past..so I figured she was definitely a good catch for me. A week ago a saw her at the gym. I arrived just minutes before she did and saw her on the tread mill. I lifted free weights for a while then made my way to free motion by the women's locker room. As soon as I did, she got off of the tread mill and made her way to the locker room. I completely ignored her as she walked right behind me. She made her way into the aerobics room and hung out there for thirty minutes or so. I waited for her to come out but lost my patience and walked into the men's bathroom. As soon as I walked out of the bathroom, she walked out of the room and made her way a pull up machine just feet in front of the room. I made my way over a cable machine by the women's locker room. As soon as I did, she got off of the machine and walked into the locker room. By now I was wondering if she was trying to snag my attention. As soon as she walked out and caught her attention and asked if she went to my high school. She gave me a slightly awkward and shocked look and said, "no.." I kinda' laughed and said, "Well you look really familiar every time I see you in here I think, 'I know her from somewhere' ". She cracked a big grin and laughed. She told me where she went and she asked me what my name was. She told me I didn't sound familiar but continued to smile. She seemed a bit nervous. We reached a dead point in the conversation and she walked off with a smile.
A few nights ago I saw her up at the gym again. I avoided her the entire night just to see if she would approach. While she was leaving she walked in front of me with her face buried in her phone without making any eye contact. I asked, "Hey how are you?" She stopped and smiled and said she was good, I joked around and said, "I know you from somewhere..I'm gonna' figure it out." She laughed and smiled. She asked me what year I was. I told her what my graduation year was and she told me as well. She started some small talk with me and chatted for a few minutes. She told me she she had to go and she walked off with a smile. I haven't seen her in a few days. My friend keeps pushing me to talk to her. He also stated that over the past few days she's been going up during the day instead of during the evening when I go. I was afraid she was avoiding me but he told me not to worry about it. I saw her up at the gym tonight. While she was walking down a isle to leave she noticed me. She was on the phone and as she passed she didn't acknowledge me in anyway. I didn't want to say anything because she was on the phone, but I assumed I would get some acknowledgment. Was she just tying to grab my attention again?
At this point..should I continue to try? I've chased women around for years and I've been dumped and rejected multiple ties. At this point, I'm done trying. I want them to show interest. Does she seem interested?