Ok,
So let me set the scene. There is this girl that I really like. We were talking Last Jan (2010) and that never worked out because I was to much of a pussy to ask her out. So Basically I lost my chance there and she made it clear to me that she wishes that I would have asked her out. So then over the summer of 2010 around July, she had a mini-breakup with her boyfriend and she went after me hard. So basically again, I put all of my attention to her. This only lasted for about 3 days this time. So the most recent time. She broke up with her boyfriend around christmas time of 2010, and we she went hard at me again. So she told me that she didnt want to go to fast and didnt want to date until she was ready because she didnt want to jump out of the fire right into another one. So i waited until she told me she was ready. That happened to be on Jan 4th. So I made the move and asked her out that day. Well recently, she made a very hurtful move and told me that she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend and she went back to him. Now I am lost because she told me "maybe things will work out in the future".... I am really good friends with all of her family and they HATE her boyfriend, and they all LOVE me! So they are VERY upset with her and are all appologizing to me and pretty much lost all respect for her at all to the point where they will barely talk. I just dont know what to do, I really really like her, but am lost because I dont want to be hurt like this again. All of my friends told me not to touch her in the first place because she had screwed me over like this before. My sister told me not to touch her, and her mom even told me to not let her mess with me. Im just lost because I really like her and just dont know what to do.... I have told her how I feel and she cried her eye's out the night that this all took place, but now, she is trying to talk to me like nothing ever happened. One of my close friends told me to pretty much "run" from her and to not talk to her anymore. I guess im being nice to her in hope's that Ill win her back, but idk if I could ever even trust her again after she did this to me twice.... What should I do....
So let me set the scene. There is this girl that I really like. We were talking Last Jan (2010) and that never worked out because I was to much of a pussy to ask her out. So Basically I lost my chance there and she made it clear to me that she wishes that I would have asked her out. So then over the summer of 2010 around July, she had a mini-breakup with her boyfriend and she went after me hard. So basically again, I put all of my attention to her. This only lasted for about 3 days this time. So the most recent time. She broke up with her boyfriend around christmas time of 2010, and we she went hard at me again. So she told me that she didnt want to go to fast and didnt want to date until she was ready because she didnt want to jump out of the fire right into another one. So i waited until she told me she was ready. That happened to be on Jan 4th. So I made the move and asked her out that day. Well recently, she made a very hurtful move and told me that she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend and she went back to him. Now I am lost because she told me "maybe things will work out in the future".... I am really good friends with all of her family and they HATE her boyfriend, and they all LOVE me! So they are VERY upset with her and are all appologizing to me and pretty much lost all respect for her at all to the point where they will barely talk. I just dont know what to do, I really really like her, but am lost because I dont want to be hurt like this again. All of my friends told me not to touch her in the first place because she had screwed me over like this before. My sister told me not to touch her, and her mom even told me to not let her mess with me. Im just lost because I really like her and just dont know what to do.... I have told her how I feel and she cried her eye's out the night that this all took place, but now, she is trying to talk to me like nothing ever happened. One of my close friends told me to pretty much "run" from her and to not talk to her anymore. I guess im being nice to her in hope's that Ill win her back, but idk if I could ever even trust her again after she did this to me twice.... What should I do....