Dba Engineer
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She is my Colleague and she is my very good friend(we both are 27). We know each other for more than a year. I moved to different place but was in contact with her over chat and phone(I moved to a different country on a work assignment and will only go back after a year. Chat and phone is the only way I could contact her). We were chating almost every week. I liked her very much and started loving her. Last week I proposed her, I asked her to marry me Over chat(I knw its not something that you can do over chat but I had to) but she told no. She told you are just a friend to me and nothing more... lets be friends.
I did not respond and I kept quite as I was little hurt. The next day when I pinged her on chat she did not respond. After a while she told she is not at all interested to talk to me anymore and asked me not to disturb her again. I apologized for whatever happened and told her that I will never talk on this matter again. She is not listening to me whatever I say. I am greatly hurt. I dont want anything I just want everything back to normal as it was before. How can I make it? I am having very tough time now not able to concentrate on anything . Please tell me what should I do now.
I did not respond and I kept quite as I was little hurt. The next day when I pinged her on chat she did not respond. After a while she told she is not at all interested to talk to me anymore and asked me not to disturb her again. I apologized for whatever happened and told her that I will never talk on this matter again. She is not listening to me whatever I say. I am greatly hurt. I dont want anything I just want everything back to normal as it was before. How can I make it? I am having very tough time now not able to concentrate on anything . Please tell me what should I do now.