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Alan J
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A girl i like dumped her her boyfriend last week- how long before i should make a move?
Ok I have a very good friend who i am really close to that I like and I think she sort of likes me- I know she used to like me before she dated her ex-boyfriend but not sure about now- the night of the breakup she did msg me sayong that she broke up with her boyfriend late at night, also when I told her i liked her when they were dating she said she was confused about how she felt about me and last night we just sat and talked (just the two of us) for a few hours and she was consistently hitting me (playfully) and playing with my hair (I didn't make a move because i do think it is too soon)
I'm thinking of waiting the weekend and asking her next to have lunch and then talk to her about it. Would that be too soon?
I don't want to be a rebound guy (it was a 9 month relationship) but she did dump him and it is over for sure- last night she burnt photos of him in front of me LOL.
I am also worried that she might not be interested not because she doesn't like me but the fact that she loves our friendship the way it is and doesn't want to jeopordise that so is there any way to ease her concerns it that area?
Would it be ok to just say to her to call me when she is ready to start dating again- because i am interested?
So does she like me? Whe should I make a move and what should I say? And how can i eleveate her concerns about a potential relationship affecting friendship?
Ok I have a very good friend who i am really close to that I like and I think she sort of likes me- I know she used to like me before she dated her ex-boyfriend but not sure about now- the night of the breakup she did msg me sayong that she broke up with her boyfriend late at night, also when I told her i liked her when they were dating she said she was confused about how she felt about me and last night we just sat and talked (just the two of us) for a few hours and she was consistently hitting me (playfully) and playing with my hair (I didn't make a move because i do think it is too soon)
I'm thinking of waiting the weekend and asking her next to have lunch and then talk to her about it. Would that be too soon?
I don't want to be a rebound guy (it was a 9 month relationship) but she did dump him and it is over for sure- last night she burnt photos of him in front of me LOL.
I am also worried that she might not be interested not because she doesn't like me but the fact that she loves our friendship the way it is and doesn't want to jeopordise that so is there any way to ease her concerns it that area?
Would it be ok to just say to her to call me when she is ready to start dating again- because i am interested?
So does she like me? Whe should I make a move and what should I say? And how can i eleveate her concerns about a potential relationship affecting friendship?