I'm 20 in college. I've known this guy for 1 year almost and we (use to) hang out on weekends with two of our other friends just drink smoke chill...and it was never about "attraction" it was about watching good movies talking and having a relaxed time.This summer at a friends party I ended up at his place minus our other two friends and we started to make out and then we met up again and we mad eout and now its been a month or so and we've had sex and we are NOT in ina relationship. I'm not in love with the guy but I am beginingg to wanta relationship, am i wrong? ive tried to play it cool and not be a clingy girl and want a relationship i've been attached but yet cool and not needy.
yesterday and a last week he really opened up to me and discussed alot of his 'fears" concerns about life in general and as i was laying in bed next to him i was like " hmm does he like me , should i reciprocate it somehow?" and i killinga chance of a relationship by mentaining my "emational" ifferent. im concered about being turned down. He'll say and do thing to make me feel nice but i want someone who will make me feel special, im ready to be in a relationship not with him but at this stage...what do you think i should do / think I'm cofused.
yesterday and a last week he really opened up to me and discussed alot of his 'fears" concerns about life in general and as i was laying in bed next to him i was like " hmm does he like me , should i reciprocate it somehow?" and i killinga chance of a relationship by mentaining my "emational" ifferent. im concered about being turned down. He'll say and do thing to make me feel nice but i want someone who will make me feel special, im ready to be in a relationship not with him but at this stage...what do you think i should do / think I'm cofused.