chelseysamson91
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I just asked this but I would like more answers and ideas that I can try out-I would also like to add that people do not believe how much I weigh, they say I look chunky thats it)
I know this is kind of out there but I really need help!! Well I am a heavy girl-by 70 pounds extra-and that's due to my health problems which unfortunately I have no control over. I want to be happy with myself but I can't because I am not happy being "fat". Even being a little chunky would be okay with me, but when I was told that I was obese I was hurt. Anyways, my boyfriend and I want to have sex with me on top, but it is very difficult. I find it hard to move(hump?)while I am on top, I think part of it is because I am a big girl. Also, he is a very tall guy so his thighs are larger(not fat)so my legs have to stretch more. I am so sick of the two regular positions that we do-doggy and him on top. I do like it, but I want so badly to be able to have sex with him with me on top. I like the other positions, but I guess I want to actually want to do some work too? Its embarrassing to be "fat" and have trouble being on top of him. I don't want to do it wrong and look like an idiot. If I can learn how to do it and actually be good at it, it will boost my confidence and I can feel better about myself and actually have a good time having sex. S please, please help! Thanks.
I know this is kind of out there but I really need help!! Well I am a heavy girl-by 70 pounds extra-and that's due to my health problems which unfortunately I have no control over. I want to be happy with myself but I can't because I am not happy being "fat". Even being a little chunky would be okay with me, but when I was told that I was obese I was hurt. Anyways, my boyfriend and I want to have sex with me on top, but it is very difficult. I find it hard to move(hump?)while I am on top, I think part of it is because I am a big girl. Also, he is a very tall guy so his thighs are larger(not fat)so my legs have to stretch more. I am so sick of the two regular positions that we do-doggy and him on top. I do like it, but I want so badly to be able to have sex with him with me on top. I like the other positions, but I guess I want to actually want to do some work too? Its embarrassing to be "fat" and have trouble being on top of him. I don't want to do it wrong and look like an idiot. If I can learn how to do it and actually be good at it, it will boost my confidence and I can feel better about myself and actually have a good time having sex. S please, please help! Thanks.