alicecu11en
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So, I'm not sure how much of this is a question. But I have no one to talk to, I can't even speak to my friends and definatley not my parents or the school in anyway. So, I would appreciate any comments or suggestions or anything. I just need to talk about this to someone.
I'm 17. I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. A year ago we started having sex shortly after his 16th birthday. (Legal age in UK)
He was a virgin so we weren't worried about STD's. (I wasn't but I would know if I had a STD)
I went on the pill and everything was fine.
My boyfriend is really nice and sweet and I adore him, but, I am a really adventurous person and he just - isn't. I half stayed with him because in my school we are the 'it' couple and he was great for my cred.
So recently, when me and my tutor became closer, I took the opportunity because I was bored.
We began having sex. Nothing more than that. He is single, but he is open about the fact that he has dates and short term things with women his age (25)
It was all really fine but I started getting really bad side effects from the Pill I was on. So my doctor recommended that I weened myself off it and he would prescribe me a new one. He told me not to have sex till I had established the new one. But that wasn't working cause it would take at least a month to swap and the symptoms to subside. I worked it out with my period and thought it was fine to have sex.
But this is the bad bit. I was helping my little sister revise for a biology test and I realised that I had made a mistake and thought ovulating happened at different time. I felt like such a retard.
Now I think I might be pregnant. I don't know who the father is.
Because of the possible fathers I cant talk to anyone.
My boyfriend is far to immature to deal with this and I'd like to tell my tutor but Im don't want to put him in a awkward situation.
I would consider an abortion but I'm not big on it... and well, would I have to go through that on my own? And if I want to go though the NHS it is very complicated and people might find out because it goes on your record.
If I go private it is much easier but really expensive so I would have to ask my tutor to pay.
I'm 17. I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. A year ago we started having sex shortly after his 16th birthday. (Legal age in UK)
He was a virgin so we weren't worried about STD's. (I wasn't but I would know if I had a STD)
I went on the pill and everything was fine.
My boyfriend is really nice and sweet and I adore him, but, I am a really adventurous person and he just - isn't. I half stayed with him because in my school we are the 'it' couple and he was great for my cred.
So recently, when me and my tutor became closer, I took the opportunity because I was bored.
We began having sex. Nothing more than that. He is single, but he is open about the fact that he has dates and short term things with women his age (25)
It was all really fine but I started getting really bad side effects from the Pill I was on. So my doctor recommended that I weened myself off it and he would prescribe me a new one. He told me not to have sex till I had established the new one. But that wasn't working cause it would take at least a month to swap and the symptoms to subside. I worked it out with my period and thought it was fine to have sex.
But this is the bad bit. I was helping my little sister revise for a biology test and I realised that I had made a mistake and thought ovulating happened at different time. I felt like such a retard.
Now I think I might be pregnant. I don't know who the father is.
Because of the possible fathers I cant talk to anyone.
My boyfriend is far to immature to deal with this and I'd like to tell my tutor but Im don't want to put him in a awkward situation.
I would consider an abortion but I'm not big on it... and well, would I have to go through that on my own? And if I want to go though the NHS it is very complicated and people might find out because it goes on your record.
If I go private it is much easier but really expensive so I would have to ask my tutor to pay.