My husband & i have been married for a few years now .We have GREAT sex but when i wanna talk about it he is always so defensive about it like I'm offending him or sum i tried talking to him about it but he doesn't want to talk about it ..So what can i do if talking does not work ????Im only 21 he is 25 .HE was my 1 st boy friend & i thought we could communicate about everything ...guess i was wrong 